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Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or can we create confidence over time? Yes, some people just have it. But as someone who once had it, lost it entirely, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to tell you that you can achieve some pretty fascinating things with building some iron belief in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or maybe you just want some more because you know exactly how much it would help you with making choices. But really, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the small stuff, the things that people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and truly knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these affirmative habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you take the time to really nail the small stuff, the huge things become even more practicable. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of targeting the tiny things that truly set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to target the practicable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger and bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get discouraged when they try something gigantic in life and fail. Actually the majority will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some serious momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and over and over again till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or maybe you just want some more because you know exactly how much it would help you with making choices. But really, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the small stuff, the things that people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and truly knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these affirmative habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you take the time to really nail the small stuff, the huge things become even more practicable. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of targeting the tiny things that truly set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to target the practicable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger and bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get discouraged when they try something gigantic in life and fail. Actually the majority will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some serious momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and over and over again till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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