Sunday, December 22, 2013

The Law Of Attraction And Leveraging Negative Thoughts

By Andrew Tatiana


Have you tried using the Law of Attraction to change your life? Have you attempted to think positive thoughts about your future yet at times you struggle with fear and doubt? You know that you should try to rid yourself of these bad thoughts but some days this task might seem impossible. What are we to do when we are incapable of avoiding the fears and doubts that plague some of us? Will we never have the life we dream of simply because our mind dwells upon negative thoughts?

It's normal that we doubt. It's normal for some of us to be filled with fear. Some of us simply don't have the time to repair the damage that has been done to us by life yet we still want our lives to change. The fear of success and love and change can consciously and subconsciously overwhelm us. We might fear becoming wealthy because we worry that our friends and family will reject us or use us. We worry about getting our hopes up when it comes to romantic relationships because the rejection from that one person that we truly love would slay our heart. We worry about any and every sort of change until we feel paralyzed with fear and helpless to change or even dream of positive change. What if we tried harnessing that fear and used it to propel us towards our dreams?

It is often said that thoughts backed by powerful emotions are necessary to manifest our dreams. Many people will tell you that your thoughts backed by passion and desire will bring you the things you dream of. If this is true then thoughts backed by fear can also help to bring a scenario in your mind to life. Perhaps you have had this happen in your life. Maybe you worried that you would lose a job. It could be that you were filled with fear that someone you loved would leave you. Have you ever had an instance in your life where you could almost picture in your mind something bad happening and that nightmare soon came true? That is an example of a thought backed by a powerful emotion. It was a negative emotion but the universe doesn't know that. The Law of Attraction doesn't judge.

Now, what if you could recreate that kind of scenario in your life but use those negative emotions to bring the things you want into your life. What if you could turn fear in your favor and use worry to make your dreams come true. While being positive and thinking optimistic thoughts about your future might be your goal, if you are struggling with negative thoughts, why not bend those thoughts to help you instead of hurt you?

For example, perhaps you have an elusive goal of falling in love. Maybe you have someone in mind or it could be that your dream is simply that someone wonderful comes into your life and falls in love with you. You want this to happen but history has shown that relationships end poorly for you. In the back of your mind there is constant doubt or fear that you'll be hurt or rejected. This fear becomes so overwhelming that you become emotional and frustrated with trying to have pleasant thoughts about this dream of falling in love.

Instead of being afraid of being rejected, why not try being afraid of this relationship coming to fruition? Think of how it would feel to wake up in the morning knowing that the person you loved was crazy about you. Your life would change. You would have more responsibilities. They would consume a lot of your time and you wouldn't have as much time for your friends or for yourself. What if they fell in love with you and they weren't as wonderful as you thought they were. What if they were clingy or jealous or if they smothered you with their love? Just think about being smothered by that person's love. Think about not having a moment alone or feeling as if they loved you more than you loved them. Oh the horror! Soon you will find that the thought of not receiving that love is gone and you're in a space where the love of your life not only falls in love with you but they consume you with that love. Fear has overwhelmed that doubt and now you have some powerful emotions behind that dream.

Surely, your goal is to make your dreams come true using the Law of Attraction and positive thoughts. You should still stick to that regimen when you're feeling positive and optimistic. Continue to spend time visualizing and meditating about your dreams and goals but for those times when negative thoughts might make you feel like you can't focus, turn them around. Try using those negative thoughts or those bad days to continue to propel you towards your goals. Stop beating yourself up because you feel somehow unfit or weak. We all have bad days and negative thoughts. Life is all about how we harness those thoughts and make them work for us instead of against us to bring into reality the life that we truly deserve.




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