Friday, July 6, 2018

Challenges In Reshaping Your Life

By Janet Olson


There are so many ups and downs day to day that it is difficult finding that perfect balance between work, relationships and even family. Reshaping your life takes an effort to do those things that one knows one should be doing in order to achieve a better lifestyle. A lot of this revolves around money and getting those comforts in life sought after by so many.

The reason for this is that change is just that change. People being habitual creatures too do not like it and bringing about change is just something that is shelved to a later date and invariably one never gets around to it. It is best to bring about this in a gradual process rather than make final definite changes that can leave one disappointed with themselves.

Then there are relationship problems or ones that are just not going the way one foresaw. Time and again many get locked into relationships that are not healthy for the fear of losing that person and moving on. If the relationship is stagnating or just an unhealthy one then ways must be found and explored or in the worst case scenario, cut ties and get on with it.

If this is the case, a person can feel that they are not loved and appreciated especially when other members do not thank them for the efforts and show some courtesy and acknowledgement for what they do. If this is the case, one does feel alienated and alone and tend to just go through the day doing what must be done in the way of doing the laundry, preparing meals and cleaning up littered rooms. If there is no other spark in these relationships with family members it can push one to divorce and move on.

So often one gets excarbetated at the idea of having to do everything for the household. From cooking to cleaning to doing washing one can tend to feel neglected especially when household members have come to expect this. This can leave one feeling alienated and upset and as time goes on can begin to make the individual angry.

The problem can lie with one of the partners. It is not uncommon to find that as life goes on, one tends to drift further and further away from the connection that one had previously. This is a very common thing in relationships and especially in marriage where a person gets wrapped up and inundated with daily chores to do and tasks.

The spark just seems to fade away and with time a person wonders what they are still doing with his or her partner. Relationships as they say take work and it is best to try and keep as in touch with the next just as it was when it started. Time must be set aside to do the things that are loved to be done thus keeping it exciting and new.

Making the changes is not easy as this means stepping out of comfort zone. Slow steps must be taken in order to bring about change and with it a new lease on life. It is something that is both rewarding and empowering in find oneself once again happy with the way things are going.




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