Saturday, May 28, 2016

An Honest Take On Self Help

By Evan Sanders


When we let go of what we think we need to be, we give ourselves the room to grow into who we truly could become.

Our society has fed us many stories about exactly what our lives need to look like.

Our world has us believing that we have to live up to standards that actually can't be lived up to. The perfect body, relationship, look, hair, lifestyle and everything else you could possibly imagine.

The are incredibly powerful stories that always tell us one thing - we aren't good enough the way we are.

The truth is, you have these incredible gifts that if you unlocked them you could amaze the world. But the first thing you have to do is take off the mask you've been wearing your entire life.

The truth is it's a whole lot easier to be yourself than be someone else.

This isn't to say that you shouldn't aim to healthily improve your life. But if you are going to go down the trail of personal development and deepening, you've got to truly focus on doing it for yourself.

Letting go of those old stories and focusing on building something new with our lives every single day is the only way that true lasting change happens.

The reason why most people fail in their goals is because they don't actually believe in what they are doing.

Of course you will be challenged. Of course you will have your belief in yourself put up against all sorts of obstacles. But if you truly have faith in what you're doing you will be able to get up time and time again after you fall.

If you are going to dive into all of this, you have to make sure you're doing it for yourself.

Appreciate what you have and get started on creating the future.

Accept where you are at and then if you want to build something different for yourself, dive into it fully. Dive into it because you believe in it.

Make your future self proud that you made the decision to act today.

In the end, if we stay true to our own paths and believe in ourselves, we are truly capable of anything.




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