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Where does confidence come from?
Some people would argue that you are born with confidence and others would argue that like anything else you can build it into your foundation over a period of time. As someone who has had a lot of confidence, then lost all of it, and had to rebuild it back from ground zero I would side with those who say it can be built.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just desire some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making choices. But really, where does this confidence come from?
Focus on momentum builders. The momentum builders are those little daily actions that many people can pass over as not important. However, if you focus on these little daily actions and do them with intention, they help you build momentum, integrity, and confidence. When you focus on the details of life that others look over, you are separating yourself from the crowd.
Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life, what else am I capable of?" You see, when you actually nail the little things, the larger responsibilities become more doable. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of concentrating on the little things that actually set us up for failing.
Sweat the small stuff. Sweat it because those are the things that are going to make you successful. Those are the things that are going to help you move forward on your climb up the mountain.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up without ever coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until you get it right.
Those little daily choices are the momentum builders.
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of amazing things. But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
Some people would argue that you are born with confidence and others would argue that like anything else you can build it into your foundation over a period of time. As someone who has had a lot of confidence, then lost all of it, and had to rebuild it back from ground zero I would side with those who say it can be built.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just desire some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making choices. But really, where does this confidence come from?
Focus on momentum builders. The momentum builders are those little daily actions that many people can pass over as not important. However, if you focus on these little daily actions and do them with intention, they help you build momentum, integrity, and confidence. When you focus on the details of life that others look over, you are separating yourself from the crowd.
Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life, what else am I capable of?" You see, when you actually nail the little things, the larger responsibilities become more doable. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of concentrating on the little things that actually set us up for failing.
Sweat the small stuff. Sweat it because those are the things that are going to make you successful. Those are the things that are going to help you move forward on your climb up the mountain.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up without ever coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until you get it right.
Those little daily choices are the momentum builders.
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of amazing things. But first, you have to sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Live your dream. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about the experience of daily life on this earth. Make sure to check out these Positive Thinking Quotes and dive into some Be Happy Quotes to start moving towards those dreams.
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